Book Review: Nirbhaya & Others Who Dared
Book Name: Nirbhaya & Others Who Dared
Author Name: Kusum Choppra
Published By: Vitasta Publishing
Nirbhaya & Others Who Dared is a book that talks
about women survivors. It does not matter who they are; rich, poor, middle-
class, in their teenage, late 20’s or 50’ – a women’s life is an endless
struggle.
The author of the book, Kusum Choppra brings forth the
feeling, that it has been enough now! Women need to take the matters in their
own hands (just so that we are clear, matters have always been in women’s hand,
now it is time to make people realize it) The book talks about the societal,
cultural and gender norms forced on women and how the society stops them from
following their dreams and ambitions in life. Why is it necessary to put women
in chains and not men?
Asking and educating about these facts, the book is a
collection of 22 stories where women from all walks of life a widow, a rape
victim, single, divorced, or married took a stand and faced some strong
situations. All the stories have been inspired from real life incidents and
some are true stories too. They are of true survivors – A Nirbhaya in every
sense.
Amidst lame love stories and reinforcing stereotypes
novels, Nirbhaya & Others Who Dared comes across as a refreshing book. As a
girl and a voracious reader, I am filled with hope and strength to not to lose
hope and face my troubles with all the conviction. Nothing can be more
empowering than education, being headstrong and to stand like a mountain. This
lovely book does not put fear in me but make me fearless.
My favorite stories from the book are ‘Lila Aur Marathan’
and ‘Jai Ma’. The former is about a lady residing in a village, who is dumped
by her husband. Still, she does not loose courage nor does she turn away from her
responsibilities. Its end has an amazing twist that really struck with me and
reaffirmed that as a girl, I have lot of power and can achieve anything I put
my heart on. While, ‘Jai Ma’ is about domestic violence and how even after
tables are turned, the protagonist chooses to be docile while making her
husband realize that he was wrong! Each story comes with a super twist in tale
which will surely make you smile!
I would definitely recommend it to everyone. It is a must
read for every woman and of course men who respect and love the women in their
lives.
Excellent review... shall read this book. Seems interesting... on a side note, Nikita, I also penned my thoughts on a related but far more benign aspect of our patriarchal society. You can find it here : http://reflectionsvvk.blogspot.in/2014/10/womenwives-and-men.html
ReplyDeleteThis is a tentative first look; would like your views on this